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Major Depressive Disorder: Recognizing the Signs and Finding Support

Written by Claire Vu, (NAMI CC Crash Course 2026 Volunteer)

7–11 minutes

Major depressive disorder (MDD), commonly called depression, is more than temporarily feeling sad or discouraged. It is a medical condition that can affect a person’s emotions, thoughts, physical health, relationships, and ability to manage everyday responsibilities. Depression can affect anyone, and experiencing it is not a sign of weakness or personal failure. Approximately 19.7 million adults suffered from at least one major depressive episode (MDE) in 2025 [1]. With appropriate support and treatment, many people improve significantly.

Common signs and symptoms

Depression does not look the same in everyone. Some people appear visibly sad, while others experience irritability, emotional numbness, unexplained physical symptoms, or withdrawal from activities and relationships.

Common symptoms include:

  • Persistent sadness, emptiness, hopelessness, or irritability
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in previously enjoyable activities
  • Sleeping much more or less than usual
  • Changes in appetite or weight
  • Low energy or feeling very tired
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Feeling worthless, guilty, or like a burden
  • Moving or speaking more slowly than usual
  • Physical discomfort
  • Thoughts about death, self-harm, or suicide

A major depressive episode is a period of at least two weeks of persistent symptoms of depression. Symptoms generally occur most of the day, nearly every day, and cause meaningful distress or difficulty functioning. However, a person does not need to wait two weeks before asking for help—especially if symptoms are severe or safety is a concern. A qualified healthcare professional can determine whether symptoms are caused by depression, another mental health condition, a medical illness, medication, or substance use. More information about symptoms is available from the National Institute of Mental Health [2].

What depression may look or sound like

Family members and friends may notice changes such as:

  • Persistent sadness, emptiness, hopelessness, or irritability: Frequently crying, becoming unusually frustrated, or saying, “Nothing is going to get better.”
  • Loss of interest or pleasure: Stopping hobbies, declining invitations, or saying, “I just don’t enjoy anything anymore.”
  • Changes in sleep: Staying in bed most of the day, struggling to get up, or being awake throughout the night.
  • Changes in appetite or weight: Skipping meals, eating much more than usual, or showing noticeable weight changes.
  • Low energy: Appearing exhausted, neglecting chores or self-care, or saying, “Everything feels like too much work.”
  • Difficulty concentrating: Forgetting appointments, struggling to follow conversations, or having trouble completing school or work assignments.
  • Worthlessness, guilt, or feeling like a burden: Apologizing excessively or saying, “Everyone would be better off without me.”
  • Slowed movement or speech: Walking, responding, or speaking noticeably more slowly than usual. *Some people may instead appear restless or unable to sit still.
  • New physical complaints: Frequently reporting headaches, stomach problems, or other discomfort without a clear medical explanation.
  • Thoughts about death or suicide: Talking about wanting to disappear, having no reason to live, or giving away meaningful possessions.

These changes may develop gradually and can look different from person to person. Statements about death, self-harm, or being a burden should always be taken seriously. Ask the person directly whether they are thinking about suicide and help them connect with immediate support. In the United States, call or text 988. Call 911 if there is immediate danger.

Risk factors and protective factors

Depression often develops from a combination of biological, psychological, and environmental factors.

Risk factors may include:

  • Personal or family history of mental illness
  • Trauma, loss, discrimination, or chronic stress
  • Social isolation or financial instability
  • Major life changes or relationship difficulties
  • Chronic illness, pain, pregnancy, or hormonal changes
  • Substance use or certain medications
  • Limited access to healthcare and support

Protective factors include supportive relationships, access to care, healthy routines, effective coping skills, a sense of purpose or belonging, and seeking help early.

Having one or more risk factors does not mean someone will inevitably develop depression. Likewise, someone can experience depression without having an obvious risk factor. Protective factors can support recovery but do not replace professional treatment when symptoms significantly affect daily life.

Treatment options

Established evidence-based treatment

Treatment should be individualized according to a person’s symptoms, preferences, medical history, cultural background, and access to care. Common evidence-based options include:

Psychotherapy: Psychotherapy provides a supportive setting to understand emotions, develop healthier coping skills, and make meaningful changes. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) helps people identify and change unhelpful patterns of thinking and behavior, while interpersonal therapy focuses on relationships, grief, conflict, and major life transitions. Other evidence-based approaches include behavioral activation, problem-solving therapy, mindfulness-based cognitive therapy, and short-term psychodynamic therapy. The most appropriate approach depends on the person’s symptoms, needs, preferences, and access to care.

Medication: Antidepressants, including selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI) and serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRI), may be recommended. Finding the best medication and dose can take time. Antidepressants should be prescribed and monitored by a qualified professional and should not be stopped suddenly without medical guidance. Antidepressants may cause side effects such as nausea, sleep changes, headaches, sexual difficulties, or weight changes, although effects vary by medication and person and should be discussed with a healthcare professional.

Combined treatment: Using psychotherapy and medication together may be especially helpful for moderate or severe depression or when either treatment alone has not provided adequate relief.

Lifestyle Modifications: Regular sleep, physical activity, balanced nutrition, meaningful social connection, and reduced alcohol or substance use can support recovery. Regular physical activity can meaningfully reduce depressive symptoms and, in some studies, has produced improvements comparable to antidepressant medication [3][4][5]. Exercise and other lifestyle practices may be used alongside professional treatment, but it should not be presented as a universal replacement for psychotherapy or medication, particularly in severe depression. These practices complement professional care rather than replace it.

Treatment for severe or persistent depression: When standard treatments have not worked—or when depression is severe, life-threatening, or accompanied by psychosis—specialists may consider treatments such as electroconvulsive therapy, transcranial magnetic stimulation, or certain rapid-acting medications.

Newer and emerging treatments: Options such as transcranial magnetic stimulation (TMS), supervised esketamine treatment, and newer medications may be considered when standard treatments have not provided enough relief. Electroconvulsive therapy (ECT) remains an important and highly effective treatment for certain severe cases. Researchers are also studying psilocybin-assisted therapy, accelerated brain-stimulation protocols, deep-brain stimulation, and other approaches. Some of these treatments are FDA-approved for specific situations, while others remain experimental and should only be pursued through qualified specialists or regulated clinical trials.

Supplements: Products such as omega-3 fatty acids, vitamin D, folate-based supplements, S-adenosyl-L-methionine (SAMe), and St. John’s wort are sometimes promoted for depression. However, research findings are mixed, and supplements have not been shown to reliably replace psychotherapy or prescribed medication [6]. Small, short-term studies suggest that saffron supplements may reduce symptoms of mild-to-moderate depression, with some trials finding results comparable to antidepressants. However, larger and longer studies are needed [7]. “Natural” does not always mean safe: supplements can cause side effects, vary in quality, and interact with medications. St. John’s wort, for example, interacts with many commonly prescribed drugs and can contribute to serotonin syndrome, which is a medical emergency, when combined with certain antidepressants. Anyone considering a supplement should first discuss it with a healthcare professional, particularly if they take other medications, are pregnant, or have symptoms of bipolar disorder.

Recovery is not always linear. A treatment plan may need to be adjusted over time, and needing a different approach does not mean treatment has failed.

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When to seek professional care

Consider contacting a primary care clinician or mental health professional when symptoms:

  • Persist for approximately two weeks or longer
  • Interfere with work, school, relationships, sleep, self-care, or daily responsibilities
  • Continue to worsen
  • Lead to increased alcohol or substance use
  • Cause withdrawal from important activities or relationships
  • Include feelings of hopelessness, worthlessness, or being a burden

Seek urgent help immediately if you or someone else:

  • Is thinking about suicide or self-harm
  • Has a suicide plan, intent, or access to lethal means
  • Is unable to care for basic needs
  • Is experiencing hallucinations, delusions, extreme confusion, or severely unusual behavior
  • Presents an immediate danger to themselves or another person

In an immediate life-threatening emergency, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency department. In the United States, call or text 988, or use the online chat through the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. The service provides free, confidential support 24 hours a day, every day.

When concerned about someone else, ask directly and calmly whether they are thinking about suicide. Asking does not place the idea in someone’s mind. Listen without judgment, remain with the person when it is safe to do so, reduce access to lethal means, and connect them with crisis or professional support.

Community resources and support

Support is available even when someone does not know where to begin.

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 for free, confidential crisis support available 24/7.
  • Contra Costa A3 Crisis Response: Call 844-844-5544 for 24-hour behavioral-health crisis support in Contra Costa County.
  • Contra Costa Behavioral Health Access Line: Call 888-678-7277 for help accessing local mental health or substance-use services.
  • NAMI: The National Alliance on Mental Illness offers education, peer support, family programs, and local affiliates. Visit NAMI to find services in your community.
  • SAMHSA National Helpline: Call 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for treatment information and referrals related to mental health and substance use.
  • Primary care and school-based services: Primary care clinics, student health centers, school counselors, employee-assistance programs, and insurance provider directories can help connect people with care.

Depression is common, serious, and treatable. Recognizing the signs and reaching out early can make a meaningful difference. No one has to manage depression alone.

Sources

https://www.apa.org/depression-guideline/patient-health-questionnaire.pdfactice healthy coping skills. 

https://www.samhsa.gov/data/sites/default/files/reports/rpt57151/2025-nsduh-companion-report.pdf

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/depression

https://www.nccih.nih.gov/health/providers/digest/depression-and-complementary-health-approaches-science

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamainternalmedicine/fullarticle/485159

https://www.ovid.com/jnls/bsam/abstract/10.1097/psy.0b013e318148c19a~exercise-and-pharmacotherapy-in-the-treatment-of-major?redirectionsource=fulltextview

https://www.bmj.com/content/384/bmj-2023-075847

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38913392/

Local Resources

NAMI Contra Costa Warm Line
(925) 942-0767

Contra Costa County Mental Health Services Access Line
1 (888) 678-7277

Info at www.cchealth.org/mentalhealth

Comprehensive List of Social Services Programs
For a comprehensive list of Social Services Programs available, including medical, food, housing, mental health, substance use, jobs, crisis lines, etc., please dial 2-1-1 from any phone.

Mental Health Financial Counselors
To reach Mental Health Financial Counselors, please call (925) 313-7750.

Crisis Hotlines

Contra Costa Crisis Center
The Contra Costa Crisis Center is a nonprofit organization committed to providing free 24/7 services to everyone in need.
Text ‘HOPE’ to 20121 to get in touch with one of their counselors.

988 National Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
The 988 Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States.
988lifeline.org 
Phone: 988

Sources

  1. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8631150/#sec16
  2. https://www.apa.org/topics/healthy-workplaces/improve-employee-mental-health
  3. https://www.cdc.gov/mental-health/caring/providing-support-for-workers-and-professionals.html 
  4. https://stigmafree.nami.org/guides/mental-health-and-burnout-in-the-workplace/ 
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